Wednesday, February 8, 2012

The Triple Filter Test

As tweeted by @IslamicThinking on Twitter.

During the golden Abbasid period, one of the scholars in Baghdad, which was the capital of Muslim caliphate at that time, was reputed to hold knowledge in high esteem. One day an acquaintance met the great scholar and said: "Do you know what I just heard about your friend?"

"Hold on a minute," the scholar replied. "Before telling me anything I'd like you to pass a little test. It's called the Triple Filter Test."

"Before you talk to me about my friend it might be a good idea to take a moment and filter what you're going to say."

"The first filter is Truth. Have you made absolutely sure that what you are about to tell me is true?"

"No," the man said, "actually I just heard about it and..."

"Alright," said the scholar, "so you don't know if it's true or not. Now let's try the second filter, the filter of Goodness. Is what you are about to tell me about my friend something good?"

"No, on the contrary..." replied the man.

"So," the scholar continued, "you want to tell me something bad about my friend, but not certain it's true. You may still pass the test though because there's one more filter left, the filter of Usefulness. Is what you want to tell me about my friend going to be useful to me?"

"No, not really," said the man.

"Well," concluded the scholar, "if what you want to tell me is neither true nor good nor even useful, why tell me at all?"


"O those who believe, no man should ever mock at other men, since it is possible that the latter are better than the former, nor should women ever mock at other women, since it is possible that the latter women is better than the former ones. And do not find fault with one another, nor call one another with bad nicknames. Bad is the name of sinfulness after embracing Faith. And whoever does not repent, such people are the wrongdoers." (Quran 49: 11).

THE END.

Put the Glass Down

As tweeted by Islamic Thinking on Twitter.

A professor began his class by holding up a glass with some water in it. He held it up for all to see and asked the students, "How much do you think this glass weighs?"

"50 grams!"
"100 grams!"
"125 grams!" the students answered.

"I really don't know unless I weigh it," said the professor, "but, my question is: What would happen if I held it up like this for a few minutes?"

"Nothing," the students said.

"Ok! What would happen if I held it up like this for an hour?" the professor asked.

"Your arm would begin to ache," said one of the students.

"You're right, now what would happen if I held it for a day?"

"Your arm could go numb, you might have severe muscle stress and paralysis and have to go to hospital for sure!" ventured another student; and all the students laughed.

"Very good. But during all this, did the weight of the glass change?" asked the professor.

"No."

"Then what caused the arm to ache and the muscle stress?"

The students were puzzled.

"Put the glass down!" said one of the students.

"Exactly!" said the professor. "Life's problems are something like this. Hold it for a few minutes in your head and they seem okay. Think of them for a long time and they begin to ache. Hold it even longer and they begin to paralyze you. You will not be able to do anything."

"It is important to think of the challenges (problems) in your life, but it is EVEN MORE IMPORTANT to have trust in Allah swt and to 'put them down' at the end of every day before you go to sleep. That way, you are not stressed, you wake up every day fresh and strong and can handle any issue, any challenge that comes your way!"

So at the end of the day, remember to 'PUT THE GLASS DOWN' and put trust in Almighty Allah swt.

Holy Quran: He it is who sent down tranquility into the hearts of the believers that they might have more faith added to their faith (48: 4). Tranquilitiy is the sign of strong faith while worries and stress is the sign of weak faith.

Tell your mind every day before you do to sleep: "Yaa Ayyatuhan Nafsul Mutmainnah, Irji'ee iLaa Rabbiki Raadhiyatam Mardhiyyah, Fadhkhulee Fee Ibaadee Wadhkulee Jannatee" (Al-Fajr 89: 27-30)

"O soul that is at rest satisfied. Return to your Lord well-pleased (with Him), well-pleasing (Him). So, enter among My servants, and enter into my Paradise."

THE END.

Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Food in Borneo: Pisang Cheese at Tumis Restaurant

Lately I've been frequenting this restaurant that's recently opened nearby Hilton Kuching. They've got the yummiest pisang cheese (fried banana fritters sprinkled with cheese and sweetened milk) and tastiest fried kuetiaw that I've ever tasted (and if you've seen my Facebook posts, I've tasted A LOT of food). 


I love the restaurant's logo! The stone mortar and the arabic alphabet is such a classic.

Tumis is a family owned restaurant managed by siblings Esthna and Dyana Hanni and they provide some very appetizing food and among the dishes that I find to be utterly delectable at Tumis are:


Ayam Bakar Tumis. Roasted chicken served with plain rice, fried tofu, raw vegetables and sambal belacan. What I love about this dish? The roasted chicken, flavorful on the outside and tender and juicy on the inside. Oh, and the sambal belacan... I'd better let you be the judge yourself. 


Hubs favorite, Pisang Cheese. There's actually a number of restaurants in Kuching serving this but according to hubs, Tumis serves the best Pisang Cheese in town. Hurrah! For chocolate lovers, there's also Pisang Cheese Chocolate if I'm not mistaken =P.


Nasi Goreng Tumis.


Terribly sorry but I haven't managed to get a photo of the fried kuetiaw just yet but mark my words, they are simply mouth-watering =).


Spotted at Tumis Restaurant:


The lady who introduced me to the yummy kuetiaw. Thank you Kak Masha! =)


Epit and hubs, yup, we are that antisocial. Our social life is restricted to chatting on Twitter, not face-to-face.


Hubs, me, Ade, Esthna, Rahman and Dyana (she's practicing pirouettes, though for what reason, I do not know). 

If you want to know more on Tumis, they are on Facebook, click [here] for more scrumptious photos of delectable food.

To yummy delicious mouth-watering food. 


xoxo Mrs Fashionista

Saturday, February 4, 2012

Satu, Dua, tigé

A few months ago, a friend of mine joined Masterchef Malaysia. Having known her for more than 17 years, I wouldn't be surprised at her move to cook (and compete) on the small screen because not only is she a wonderful cook, she's also very passionate at what she does. Out of all 24 contestants, she lasted 'til the top six. Wow! Am really proud that she managed to not only prove that she is a wonderful cook (her dishes are not only very, very delicious, it's filled with passion and love), she also convinced the judges that she deserves her spot in Masterchef Malaysia and she persevered despite having to compete under extremely stressful circumstances. 


This is us, off for a mini getaway to Sematan, Lundu in 2008.


Still couldn't recognize my friend? Here's a photo you might recognize =)


Photo taken from Imelda's official Facebook page. Unfortunately may I say that this photo really doesn't do her justice, she looks better in real life =).


Since the show (which ended a couple of months ago) she and her two pals in Masterchef Malaysia, Brian and Ezani have partnered up to create tigé, an establishment that aims to feature a collage of their favorite foods, recipes and paraphernalia. 


Oh, here they are. Recognize them from the show?

Recently launched a few days ago (yup, it's still hot from the oven)  tigé is currently offering pick-up service for these yummylicious food:


Craving for more... Chocolate Cake!


The Little Cupid Package.


I Heart You Cupcakes. Psst, these are red velvet cupcakes. Absolute yum!


I Love You This BIG Cookies.


I Love You This Much Package.


Just the Two of Us Package.


Little Pieces of Love. 

Can't wait to get your hands on these beautiful and scrumptious pieces? You can make your order via tigé's website, click [here] or for more information, you can also visit their Facebook page [here].

To love, friendship and success. 


xoxo Mrs Fashionista


Here's tigé featured in the News Straits Times on Monday, 6 February 2012. The full article is available [here].

Friday, February 3, 2012

Puppies for Sale

As tweeted by Islamic Thinking on Twitter.

A store owner was tacking a sign above his door that read "Puppies for Sale."

Signs like that have a way of attracting small children, and sure enough, a little boy appeared under the store owner's sign.

"How much are you going to sell the puppies for?" he asked.

The store owner replied, "Anywhere from $30 to $50."

The little boy reached in his pocket and pulled out some change. "I have $2.37," he said. "Can I please look at them?"

The store owner smiled and and whistled and out of the kennel came Lady, who ran down the aisle of the store followed by five teeny, tiny balls of fur.

One puppy was lagging considerably behind. Immediately the little boy singled out the lagging, limping puppy and said, "What's wrong with that little dog?"

The store owner explained that the veterinarian had examined the little puppy and had discovered it didn't have a hip socket. It would always limp. It would always be lame.

The little boy became excited. "That is the puppy that I want to buy." The store owner said, "No, you don't want to buy that little dog. If you really want him, I'll just give him to you."

The little boy got quite upset. He looked straight into the store owner's eyes, pointing his finger, and said, "I don't want you to give him to me. That little dog is worth every bit as much as all the other dogs and I'll pay full price. In fact, I'll give you $2.37 now, and 50 cents a month until I have him paid for."

The store owner countered, "You really don't want to buy this little dog. He is never going to be able to run and jump and play with you like the other puppies."

To his surprise, the little boy reached down and rolled up his pants to reveal a badly twisted, crippled left leg supported by a big metal brace. He looked up at the store owner and softly replied, "Well, I don't run so well myself, and the little puppy will need someone who understands!"

We ALL need some who understands. Be more understanding and caring. For with ibaadat (prayer) you will earn Jannah, InsyaAllah; but with helping others you will earn Allah swt, InsyaAllah. May Allah make us all more understanding, InsyaAllah.

THE END.

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Masjid Jamek Kuching

I had the opportunity to lend a hand (and my ability as a novice photographer) for mum's latest venture. No, it's not a business venture. And no, I am not telling what it is, at least not yet. 

We did our shoot at Masjid Jamek (next to Pustaka Negeri Sarawak) and here are some photos of Masjid Jamek that I took while waiting for our session to wind down. 

Happy looking!


The ceiling of the mosque. If I wasn't there to shoot, I'd never have noticed the beautiful ceiling. 


The main dome. 


Islamic caligraphy. 


An open door. 


Blue, yellow and red. 


Class is in session. 


Prayer mats. 


Another photo of the ceiling.


The outer part of the mosque.


Oh well, a sneak peak of what we were shooting:


Thank you to the lovely lady for her patience and strength (it is definitely not easy, I tell you).

Let's hope this project pulls through and when it does, I'll blog all about it!

To faith and religion.


xoxo Mrs Fashionista

Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Valentine's is near

Roses are red
Violets are blue
I love chocolates
More than you!

Our salon is coming up with a Valentine's Day promotion and it starts tomorrow!


It's actually almost similar to the Chinese New Year promotion except that rather than giving free haircuts, we will be giving out heart-shaped Ferrero Rocher chocolates!


Nicely wrapped up and ready to go =)


The chocolates that we are giving away. So, how do you get these? You just simply head down to Abiey Salon (the salon is right next to JnJ Cafeteria, Tabuan Jaya) and either make a booking or just walk in and ask for the Valentine's Day promotion. By the end of your session, we'll hand you one of these, for free! It's that easy!


To love and being beautiful. 


xoxo Mrs Fashionista